Let's Talk Manifesting!
Hey Queens!
If you've been following my IG stories over the last couple of weeks, you know by now that I have made May the "Month of Manifesting".
So in honor of #ManfiestingMay, let's chat about Manifesting!!
Manifesting in the simplest terms is this: Creating your reality.
A lot of people think manifesting has to be this super "woo-woo" practice. Really, though, it can be as woo-woo (or not) as you'd like it to be. It's all about what you feel works best for you, what you feel comfortable with, what feels fun for you, etc.
Let's get one thing clear about manifesting: we are always - always - manifesting.
There are two types of manifesting, however:
1. Active Manifestation: this is when you are actively aware of what you are creating.
2. Passive Manifestation: this is when you are NOT actively aware/conscious of what you are creating.
The goal is always to be actively manifesting your desired reality.
This consists of becoming aware of:
- Your Patterns, Programming and Limiting Beliefs: These are the old stories, taught to you by your family, your schooling, society, bad experiences, etc. An example would be saying you'll start a diet Monday for the 5000x and continuing to go back to old habits.
- Your Thoughts: Our thoughts are often the same day in and day out - like a habit. Our thoughts create things, and if we're running negative thoughts - it will create negative situations.
- Your Values: Values - much like beliefs - will run how we prioritize certain things in our lives.
- Your Feelings - aka Your VIBE! What are you feeling? What energy are you outputting?
When you become consciously aware of these - you can begin to CHOOSE them.
For so long, you may have been on pure auto-pilot. Maybe thinking you were making your own decisions, but really they were just dictated by your programming and you may have thought there was no other way.
In that case, you were probably PASSIVELY manifesting - and most likely, passively manifesting things/situations that you did not want and did not desire. Things would happen to you over and over again and you'd ask, "Why does this keep happening to me?!?" That is Passive Manifesting.
Active Manifesting is where you can WIN!
Active Manifesting is where you can finally get what you desire!
Here's how to actively manifest what you really want:
Step One: Get Clear on Your Desires!
The only way this works if you get clear on what you REALLY want - not just what you think you "should" want or "should" have. It will not work, unless you get clear on your true desires. Nothing is too big. You want to be a millionaire in 5 years or less? Write it down! You want to own your dream house this year? Write it down! Whatever you truly desire as an outcome, get clear and write it down.
Step Two: Choose Beliefs that Support You!
This will most likely include knocking out old stories and old limiting beliefs that do not support you reaching your desires. Now you get to make the rules! Choose your new beliefs and make these your new mantras. Let yourself really SEE your desires manifesting, easily.
Step Three: Let Go!
Surrender the control and know the "how" it will happen is not up to you. I know, I know. This is the hardest part! It's also one of the most critical steps if you want to manifest your desires QUICKLY. The reason this speeds up your manifestation? Letting go is the PROOF that you believe you can have your desires. It's PROOF that you trust your desires are here for you.
Step Four: Take Aligned Action
Let's not get this confused with hustling, grinding or any of that pressure. Aligned Action is following your intuition, doing what feels right as the next step, seizing the opportunities that you are presented with.
Step Five: Allow & Receive
Be ready and be open to receive!! Allow your desires to show up in your reality. If you wanted to manifest travel, prepare your schedule so you're ready to receive. If you wanted to manifest a soulmate, prepare your heart to be ready to share your life. Allow for it to come to you.
And know, IT IS ALWAYS THIS OR SOMETHING BETTER.
Meaning, you will get your desires, but don't be so focused on the micro details because you will be given your desires or even something better - so you have to be open. :)
Dedicate the next two weeks to #ManifestingMay and see what miracles happen for you!
If you desire to start manifesting more quickly in your life, or just start manifesting MORE - grab The Month of Manifesting Journal or join the course!
Gratitude x Abundance, Queens!
-Bekkah
